\My wife is going to leave me in 5 days--help!

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ok, not too bad of a day, I only cried once so far. The wife only called once and asked how I was doing. I said good. She said that's great like she wants me to get on with life in a week or something. I really don't understand how she could leave her daughter behind like this. I talked to my only friend today and told him what was going on. He couldn't believe it of course. Told me that she would regret it sooner or later especially when it came to my daughter. I'm not going to tell her that as we don't have a divorce yet and I don't want her to think this and change her mind about taking my daughter.

How do you make someone care??? I think she cares but WTF is going through her head really??? This is really confusing to me. I really hope she realizes what she is doing before it's too late. I thought today about all the stuff that used to be important to me and realized that just isn't the case anymore. I think I will wait one year to see what happens and then I'm selling my house. I don't want to take care of it by myself. I don't wanna mow ever again if I can help it, take care of a pool, etc. Maybe a condo for me and my daughter? If I stay here then on the beach? With the market being what it is I could probably get a deal. We'll see. Trying hard not to think of the wife but it is very difficult especially because she is being so damn cheerful and matter of fact about it--I miss her really bad.
Got a book from my Mom today called Love must be tough by James Dobson. Lots of the same principles as the DB book--interesting. We'll I'll close for tonight. I'm sure glad my daughter is here--would be really scary if I didn't have anyone to talk to.