I have been trying to keep the peace and taking on responsibility myself. Plus, right now I am out of a job. I'm hoping this one I talked to the agency comes through for me.
I have my second coaching session set up for noon tomorrow. Maybe she will further help me along.
All I know is my W has told me she is done repeatedly and has filed. She has the custody agreement drawn up and the waiver of service ready for me to sign. Just hasn't happened yet. She knows I am not going anywhere without the custody agreement and she has the waiver for me to sign to get the custody agreement.
She has me by the cahones right now. There isn't alot I can do about it given my situation. She basically calls the shots right now. If I get this job, I can move out and still try and work on things with her.
But I really just want things fixed between us. I'm not sure how to stand up for myself without angering her. I think that is a problem since she holds all the cards right now.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
