I think you are gonna have to be my buddy through this. Sorry! LMAO because I am 5'3", too. NONE of my friends and even most of the people on this board believe he is sleeping with her. My gut says no, although I will say I do believe she has probably tried and hopefully been shot down. She is not a pretty woman. She looks like....I don't know what. 5'10 amazon woman, chunky, unkept. she is from hawaii but is not hawaiian, so something mixed. so it's hard for me to imagine. IF he is, he's doing her a favor. but that's just me being catty. okay, not really.
so. today i called base legal and talked to them a minute. i did manage to get an email where he confirms they slept in the same bed but he did not sleep under the sheets. email further down states that command knows about it and is okay with it. i am not going to do anything with it right now. i understand he is prolly still working through crap. that is fine. i don't think i should let it go to july though. i dunno. i would rather be married than right, yes. quit reminding me. but at least i talked to legal (did not give name). it was just a staff, but still, she helped. it's not proof, but she did say that people would be interested to see the email. i asked her about no contact order. she said to see security forces, to which i replied H is security forces. she says oh. so now at least she knows who the shirt is that is condoning it. i did call back 5 min later and confirm that they would not act on anything until i requested it. she agreed.
what i think would be ideal would be for a legal rep to call the shirt, talk to her, voice their concerns and let them know that while they do not want paperwork, they expect her to make the stitch right.
oh well. i am trying to step back right now but it is so hard with so many people telling me how stupid i am - that he is sleeping with her. i know that no one has called me stupid (here) but i still feel that way except that I friggin believe him. He said he does not want to be emotionally involved with anyone right now. He is enjoying his freedom hanging out with the boys, doing whatever he wants, he says. So anyway. The C believes him. His parents believe him. The problem is that none of my friends know him. We didn't have "joint" friends that we hung out with that could give me an objective opinion. Anyway. I will just wait to see the C on Monday, I suppose.
Don't have any contact for anyone on this board. Not complaining, but it makes finding you hard.
Talk to you later.
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
but that's just me being catty. okay, not really.
but i still feel that way except that I friggin believe him. He said he does not want to be emotionally involved with anyone right now. He is enjoying his freedom hanging out with the boys, doing whatever he wants, he says. So anyway. The C believes him. His parents believe him. The problem is that none of my friends know him. We didn't have "joint" friends that we hung out with that could give me an objective opinion. Anyway. I will just wait to see the C on Monday, I suppose. 
