ral819- not to despress u and I cant remember if u suspect this....but is there an OM???.....there is alot of endorphins going during the beginning of an affair and I think they do feel good..and yes you are in the way...do she is fine if you are distant...u are not on the radar...its so hard but keep detaching....they say most affairs burn out 6 months to 18 months...interferance from us make them be prolonged...like it seals them like glue if we focus on the other person to them becuase they have to defend their actions..
