Here is a big fear

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What if all of the MLC BS is really just about OW? Is he just confused about OW and in love with her? Is that why he is so confused or is MLC real? Please tell me MLC is real. I know it has to be because his behavior seemed to start before he met OW. He has limited his R with his kids too, not just me. He has left his home, family, familiar way of life ( which is and has been good) if this is just aboout the OW then she has some strong hold on him. He has said that he just wants to be alone, He told me that the kids and I are "obligations" and doesn't want any obligations. He said if i think he is leaving my just to get into another relationship I am crazy. OK then, why OW????