it's nice to meet you! Thank you for sharing your story. Wow, you have been very patient already for 2 years! Congratulations! This sounds like a positive development in your situation for sure!
Just a few quick thoughts. Maybe your H has changed his mind about the d--but maybe he is not ready to come home yet. maybe he wants to be back with you but he is still organizing himself inside and processing. It is normal for the WA, when their relationship with the OP falls apart, to need to grieve over that for a while. Maybe he is "checking you out" but still not sure what he wants. So--if he isn't talking to you about the relationship YET, it might be because he isn't ready.
my advice would be--keep doing what you are doing-- continue to be patient and warmly welcome his attention to you. but don't press for an R talk--just make him feel comfortable to come to you when HE is ready for that. does that make sense? In the meantime, have fun!! Dance, eat chocolate, take a hike, hang out with your girlfriends, buy yourself a hot new outfit--do things that delight you and full your own heart with joy. It will show!
congratulations on your DB'ing again. You have worked very hard to get to this point. Pat yourself on the back!!
