My W was unhappy but she said she didn't consider leaving until the OM (who was also married) put the idea in her head. They kind of made a pack together to break up with each other's spouses. I don't think my W would had gone looking herself but she was vulnerable to someone else's pressure.
It's a shame she was so weak, it'll be her downfall I believe.
Me:38 W:40 Bomb/EA 03/08 Recon twice 1/09 W files for D Story