It would have been someone else if not this guy. My W did the same thing. Twice before this when things weren't good she got buddy buddy and feelings for different OM. Both times those OM moved away and things got back to normal for us.

However, this time, this guy isn't moving anywhere. So yes, I have to say that she is right. It would have been someone else at some point if not for current OM.

Just my experiance.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...