Just an update.
XW was away last weekend partying. No communication until Sunday. I am almost certain she was with OM, but no proof! I called her on Monday to ask if she could keep my d on Wednesday(I was invited to a Bball game). She said she had to check with her work out partner(GF) to see if they could move there time.

Kind of pissed me off, but I didn't let her know. I decided right then that I wasn't going to the game. She called after work, but I let it go to vm. No message. I didn't call her back.

The next morning she called, but I was in a meeting. She sent me a email about some logistic for d wednesday cheerleading class about noon. I responded ok. Nothing about the game.

I called her after work to tell her I started the process for the mortgage loan modification(180 for me). She seemed impressed.
She then ask me about the game. I said I already told them I couldn't go. I never heard back from you, and didn't want to inconvience you on my day with d. Plus I would rather spend the time with d. This seemed to make XW happy, not sure why!

A few friendly txt through out the night and this morning about d. Tonight is d cheerleading class, and XW is planing on attending as well.

One other thing. A lady I just recently meet through a friend, ask me to have a drink with her on Friday after work. I am thinking about going.
I am divorced and it is only a drink, but I still hope to reconcile my M. What do you think?


Keep the faith!!
One Goal!
Thanks
CZ
me: 34
XW: 29
D: 5
T: 13
M:9
Dday: Sep 18, 08
joint legal and physical custody of child
XW recently told me, she d me, cause she tought I would abandoned her!