Sara! I hope that all is good with your son, what a scary thing to have happen!
Anothernightmare, all that Sara says about Retrouvaille is true, My H and I went over a year ago, and have to say that we had a similar experiance, this was our last hope weekend, we both knew that, and I do believe it saved us, and changed for us the way we communicate for the best. I wish you nothing but the best for you weekend, and it is good you have the day off after as you will need it! I had to call in sick, as I was so drained, but in a good way!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!