WAW - Very confused and devestated - pt 2

[AnotherNightmare]

CIP,

There is not much to add to what SF wrote. You must stop pursuing her. Calling her for a lunch appointment is pursuing.

I did not know that you are bombarding her with suggestions on what to do (read that book, go to Retro, go to MC, vacation weekends etc etc). Stop that right now!

Instead of watching TV with her, go out with some friends and give her space. If you are really interested in that show, watch it in a different room. I am serious, you have to stop pursuing her. It will lead to absolutely nothing and will take the focus off of you. Let her come to you!

Do not try to fix her, fix yourself! Work on getting your anxiety under control. At a minimum, do not act on it!

AN