Hi Newgal,

Thank you. The wine is a good idea, but I won't have a chance as we are meeting right after work. I don't think that whether or not it's my D's b-day will make a difference. I don't know, maybe I am jumping to conclusions, but I don't think she'd say she was down if it were anything good. She's just not interested in being married right now and all of her actions show that. I like your suggested response and I will try to remember to say things like that. I have been praying since speaking to her this morning and I will continue to pray that my response to whatever she says glorifies God.

WP