Be definitive, but definitive for the right reasons.

I also think if you are sure you are done, than be done. Move out when it works for you to move out, otherwise he is in control.

Speaking from experience, it's just a house... "you" make it a home.

Having done this I can offer advice if you like, or just offer support & understanding with how difficult this is to do.

Just because you move out doesn't mean you can't move back if & when things change to what you are looking for.

Having looked over Craigs List there are plenty of rentals available in your area.

I believe in you
Peace & hugs
Bridge

Last edited by Bridgestone; 02/11/09 06:28 PM.
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