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I will keep him and his family in my prayers. It's very difficult to see a family member or a friend on a ventilator for a period of time. He's been on one for far too long. He is in a better place and united w/his wife once again.


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Thank you all for your prayers! Yes, he is much better off, he just couldn't recover after getting on that ventilator.

I'm not sure what I'm going to do, I don't know the arrangements yet & we are supposed to have some bad weather move in. I may go on to AL tomorrow morning early & that way I'm there. I'm sure the funeral will be Monday or Tuesday, but then again I'm not sure b/c he was a former Gov. it may be a little later to let some of the senators arrive. I just don't know yet.

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Hi nlt,
I am so sorry about your pastor. He surely will be missed.

I hope you will not get too much of winter weather anymore, as it just is no fun to be outdoors.

Have a good week-end.((HUGS)))

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Hi Nlt,
Thanks for checking in on my thread. I've been following along but haven't been posting.
I am sorry to hear about your pastor passing away.

I am also sorry about what you've been going through with the emails, from OW most likely. Your H is a fool. Never doubt that you are the better person.


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Hi nlt,

I hope your winter weather has gone by and you had a lovely week-end.

Have a good week. Thinking of you. (((HUGS)))

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Hi True & Addie,

I'm really tired today. I went to the funeral of the pastor & former Gov. yesterday. They had the state funeral first & then the regular funeral. It was very sad & he will be missed. Then I drove back home, got there a little late but met my friends for a ladies night out. We had a good time.

Today I'm a little depressed. Not exactly sure why, thinking about XH a lot today.

I just can't believe how he got himself into this!!

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Hi nlt,

Sorry you are a bit depressed, but I am glad you had a good time on the ladies night out.

Have a nice week-end. (((HUGS)))

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Hi everyone,

I'm sorry I haven't written in a while. I've just been so tired lately & I've been pretty down.

I'm not sure why but my ex has been on my mind so much lately, just the past few days all I can think about is either what happened & how everything transpired & then sometimes I think about how we were when we were dating & then after we got married & how happy we were. And, now I can't believe where we are!!

He's with another woman, I discovered they have a dog now together, how can he just forget about me & all that we had!!!! I guess he is happy now, but we were so happy at one time!!!

His birthday is Thursday, I can't help it, I just miss him so bad!!!

Sorry, just had to vent a little bit!

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Hi nlt,

Thanks for popping by my thread. I missed your posts and was thinking of you often.

I can imagine how you feel. We seem to go round and round in circles and just cannot understand what happened and why. I hope you will feel better soon and have other and happier thoughts.

Have a good week. (((HUGS)))

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Dear ((((nlt)))),

I understand you so well.

My H and OW also have a dog together and now there are puppies...
I LOVE dogs passionately, but when I'm on the phone with H and I hear them all barking, I feel sick. I hate poor little beasts:(

Please, try not to spend all day tomorrow thinking of H...
Do something nice for yourself instead.

(((Hugs)))


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