N, I will keep him and his family in my prayers. It's very difficult to see a family member or a friend on a ventilator for a period of time. He's been on one for far too long. He is in a better place and united w/his wife once again.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thank you all for your prayers! Yes, he is much better off, he just couldn't recover after getting on that ventilator.
I'm not sure what I'm going to do, I don't know the arrangements yet & we are supposed to have some bad weather move in. I may go on to AL tomorrow morning early & that way I'm there. I'm sure the funeral will be Monday or Tuesday, but then again I'm not sure b/c he was a former Gov. it may be a little later to let some of the senators arrive. I just don't know yet.
Hi Nlt, Thanks for checking in on my thread. I've been following along but haven't been posting. I am sorry to hear about your pastor passing away.
I am also sorry about what you've been going through with the emails, from OW most likely. Your H is a fool. Never doubt that you are the better person.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
I'm really tired today. I went to the funeral of the pastor & former Gov. yesterday. They had the state funeral first & then the regular funeral. It was very sad & he will be missed. Then I drove back home, got there a little late but met my friends for a ladies night out. We had a good time.
Today I'm a little depressed. Not exactly sure why, thinking about XH a lot today.
I just can't believe how he got himself into this!!
I'm sorry I haven't written in a while. I've just been so tired lately & I've been pretty down.
I'm not sure why but my ex has been on my mind so much lately, just the past few days all I can think about is either what happened & how everything transpired & then sometimes I think about how we were when we were dating & then after we got married & how happy we were. And, now I can't believe where we are!!
He's with another woman, I discovered they have a dog now together, how can he just forget about me & all that we had!!!! I guess he is happy now, but we were so happy at one time!!!
His birthday is Thursday, I can't help it, I just miss him so bad!!!
Thanks for popping by my thread. I missed your posts and was thinking of you often.
I can imagine how you feel. We seem to go round and round in circles and just cannot understand what happened and why. I hope you will feel better soon and have other and happier thoughts.
My H and OW also have a dog together and now there are puppies... I LOVE dogs passionately, but when I'm on the phone with H and I hear them all barking, I feel sick. I hate poor little beasts:(
Please, try not to spend all day tomorrow thinking of H... Do something nice for yourself instead.
(((Hugs)))
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08