Just found out wife filed

[RobD70]

Have to communicate with the W today.

I txt her this morning to let her know I dropped off some forms at her mother's for her to fax. I noticed her son's car wasn't there and he suppose to be living with her now (her car would be in the garage). I suspect they may be staying at the OM's place now since there wasn't alot of room at her mom's to begin with. The thought of that "angered the blood" at first but I'm better now.

I have to send her an email about the house offers and to tell her to pay her own bills starting in March. I took myself off her family plan on the cell phone so now we just share medical/auto insurance but it will probably stay that way as long as she pays her share since it's cheaper to do that.

I hate that she still has an effect on me but I know it won't last forever. No matter what, I plan on sticking to my guns and stay business-like and no small talk. I let her have the last word whenever I can and I'm trying to be more assertive when dealing with her. For instance, in my first email draft I said something like "If you don't mind, could you change your direct deposit..." to "Please change your direct deposit...". I thought about leaving out the "please" lol.

I think my ego is what is hurting now. Once I deal with that then I'm hoping I won't care what she does anymore. Going NC has helped since no news is good news in that I have no new info to have to think about.