W asked me what I am going to get her for Valentine's Day. I was thinking about 5LL and I think if I had to guess I would say W's LLs are Gifts and Acts of Service.

Mine are probably Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation. It's no wonder I have been so angry all this time, I always complained that she never touched me and constantly criticized me. That is certainly still the case.

On the other side of the coin, I have never really put a lot of time and thought into gifts for W...acts of service I have done a lot, maybe it is the only reason she stuck around. When D4 was born for example, W was feeling sleep deprived so I did all the nights (we were taking turns getting up initially). I even sent her into the spare room so she could get a full 8 or 9 hours of completely undisturbed sleep. This went on until D4 started sleeping through the night. Don't recall exactly how long it took, but it was many months. Lately W still complains that I don't keep her car washed, although I have been making sure it always has gas in it.

Dunno why I am writing about this, just on my mind I guess. First chapter of PM was very interesting, gives me a feeling that insight is just around the corner, but I don't want to get my hopes up too much.

Spellfire aka Mike

"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A