I just had another thought........my mom has an RV. Maybe I could park it out front of my house, & I live in the RV when H is around. LOL
I seriously don't even care about waking him up anymore. The way he has conducted himself & acted & spoken to me......... I don't even think we share the same value system.
How can you be married to a person for this long & not see who they really are underneath the nice shirt & cologne ??
He changed careers about 12 years ago. My mom think that it has changed him a lot, the way he thinks. Things that are okay that didn't used to be. It's sad.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.