thanks, I've thought about that for a while. I just don't think I'd feel safe sharing an alternate living space with him too. Given the past spy techniques, & all that crap. My mom has a spare bedroom, maybe I can stay there for a bit & see what happens.
I'll talk to Doc today & see what he suggests.
Last night I just asked H, "are you sleeping on the couch, or am I" he said he would.
I was up pretty late thinking...... With his new business venture he's been leaving the house around 10 am, I could come over then, be at our house for the whole day when our youngest is on track break/spring break, all those year round school breaks..... and then when every one is in school, I could come over in the afternoon when the kids are getting home, stay with them through dinner, then tuck them in bed at 9 pm, & leave. He normally gets home around 6:30 or 7, so we'll only be together about 2 hours.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
