Sounds like a bit of tell you what you want to hear, to get you to shut up, doesn't it.
I'm not seeing that he wants it. That's pretty disappointing to me, I hate to think what it is like for you!
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((((Jeff)))) that's part of the craziness of years of emotional abuse. He says one thing, does another, & then later, denies that he either said it, or says he didn't want to do it, & that he only did it to "keep me happy", or he had no choice because of what I did. In every single argument he circles back around & tries to convince me that I said something else, & then will change what he said..... It's fricked up majorly.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
