This sounds wonderful! He is doing good things for himself and for the relationship. And you are taking a healthy breather from the magnifying glass over sex. HAVE FUN!!!
Love, Lucky
Thanks Lucky~ I am having fun as a matter of fact. Yes, yesterday was a day off for me as well. He called me around 9pm. {{this was a nice break for me and him*} He apoplogized for not calling sooner. ? I told him .... You dont have to apologize. I was actually feeling good. I was happy you were doing something fun for you.
He then says in the sexiest sweetest voice possible? I LOVE YOU ALI~ OMG~ I just melted. I replied ...
I love you too baby. I love you more....
And that was it. No SL talk , no R talk,
Awesome, just really awesome.
I am now reading again. Loving what is. Byron Katie
Also I am reading @ Tao ching. A book by Wayne Deyer. I am enjoying how much I am open to receiving right now. I also read Passionista Ian Kerner. It is about what men like in bed.... a book for Women. I loved it. Lots of great advice in there. Most of it I have done so it reinforced for me that I am not a fuddy duddy.
I can remember even going to pick hubby up at our local airport .... in a beautiful dress w/o panties on. He l-o-v-e-d it.
I see how *I* put myself in a box and then when he said *YOU* are the problem in our SL not *me*. I shut the lid and only peeked out when I could. I agreed with him... he was part of the problem h-e-l-l-o. But , I see now that I do have the power to change our SL , our R all by myself.
I am feeling the energy of being a sexual being... I am feeling myself. There is still a very tiny voice in me that says ... be careful ,, what if you flop? I just smile and change the thought around.