Its still all a fantasy for your W. Pretty soon it will all come crashing down and she will have to make some choices regarding her time. Of course she doesn't want you to know she is with OM, but yet wants sympathy for her studies.
Just keep on!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
