I think we're all right there with you. I try one thing for a week or two and then move on to something else because I'm not sure if the other thing was working and so on and so on. I think, at least for me, that the most important and beneficial (and hardest) thing to do is to focus on myself and takning care of me. We probably all want to control the situation, but it's impossible to control. I'm trying to let go and let God.