Hey Mattie and Donna,

Well, I'm home again today with S10 who is sick. I stayed home with him yesterday as well, and dropped him off at the STBXW's house at 7AM on my way to work this morning. She works at home on Wednesdays. Five minutes away from work, she calls and says S10 still doesn't feel well and "According to the parenting plan, you need to take 2 days for every one I take with the kids when they're sick because you get 15 sick days a year and I only get 5". I asked why he couldn't just stay on the couch and watch TV while she "worked". She reminded me this was a "Work Day for her, and that she had a lot to accomplish"! What a bit&h! I said "Forget it. I got it!" and went back to pick up S10. What a great mother!

He told me that he wanted a cup of Raman Noodles, and was told by STBX on the way out "If you want that, your father will have to provide that at his house". THAT'S JUST HOW SHE TALKS. Like an automoton!

ENOUGH! I called her and asked her if she realized how ridiculous she sounded. She tried to take me on a birdwalk about me not wanting to "stay home with a sick child". I just went right back at her. She is out of her mind. The kids think she is nuts! My son thought she was so ridiculous!

She is just doing this sort of stuff because she has lost all control over me, and I believe is jealous in a weird, sick, twisted, perverted way that I am very happy with Gym woman, and she is still miserable about her entire life, including her relationship with a guy who is still married, wearing a wedding ring and living with his wife. Divorce made NOTHING better for her, and now I couldn't be happier that I'm getting rid of her. (If you read my threads in the early days, this is a totally different FLTC talking!)

The kids told me that she and he had a fight last week (Go figure?) and she has been in a bad mood since then! It was only a matter of time before she showed her "true controlling, be right at any cost" to this schmuck!

Last edited by FLTC; 02/11/09 01:25 PM.