Jack may not be pissed at you when he reads this nonsense tomorrow.
He's a lot bigger than I am in that regard.
I have no doubt he will check himself, though. Not that he hasn't already spent more time looking inward and cleaning up his own trash than you can even fathom - but he will check himself.
Because that's the kind of man he is.
And while he's trying to run down in himself what you're actually seeing in the mirror, alot of people will lose out for not having his advice during the time stands down.
Nice.
And not that I think what you've said holds any water but if you were such a concerned friend you'd have given him a call instead of blindsiding him like this on the board.
The wheels came off this thing about 2 miles back. I have no idea where we are now.
I agree with Amy. Jack I value and take in everything you have given me. I have no clue why this has skyrocketed into the direction it has gone. I'm going to start a thread and explain exactly where I was coming from. I hope you will still offer your advice.
was it? Jack often gives me his 'opinion' and I accept it. No one ever asked you to do that. You are supposed to do like the rest of us do and weigh what people post to you against your own situation and take from those posts and apply what you can. You are not supposed to blindly accept anything because no one here can possibly be 100% correct. Moreover, you have an extreme sitch and a severe lack of healthy self-esteem. Jack doesn't post the same to you as he posts to everyone else but he also does not contradict himself.
To tell me that MY opinion is worth less is demeaning Amy. In MY opinion, your opinion is highly questionable at this time.
I am not atacking Jack. I'm giving my opinion / observarsation. Bullsh*t and even if it were not, this isn't Jack's thread. If you were the concerned friend you are coming off like you are you'd have called him with your "opinion/observations".
He doesn't need to be defendendended, Jack needs to look at his anger and come to a conclusision. Mirror, mirror...
If you don't agree with that, then I guess I am an ass-hole, I didn't call you an ass-hole. I think you are doing some serious deflecting at Jack's expense.
Like Isaid, I've been looking at the past year of posting, and I believe I've found a lot of anger thay I would to like you to heal. And I think you are looking only at the posts he wrote to YOU, which were mostly designed to cause you MAN UP. He doesn't post the same to others however I will say again, Jack does not contradict himself.
that's all
Stopputing Jack on s high horse. Nobody is on a high horse. You are just pissed because you're down here flawed and floundering your way through like all the rest of us had/have to.
Just like you, Amy, I am also humbled.
I've spent a lot of time learning from this and i DON'T say what I say lightlighty No but you say it without the benefit of having walked your own walk out yet.
