\My wife is going to leave me in 5 days--help!

[AFWAW]

Melissa,
I appreciate the advice. Yeah, I still suspect that too but part of me doesn't want to believe it. I don't think she would tell me anyway due to the fact that I could get her in trouble at work. There's nothing I can do about if she is and will probably never know unless she slips. I don't intend to pursue her though and try to find out if there is another man. I hope not. I don't intend to date until I'm divorced and then it may be a while after that as my confidence is pretty shot right now. She did say last night after I asked her to wait 2-3 months that it wouldn't be the same if we got back together. I said I knew it would be different and was here when and if she was ready to talk about it. Doesn't look too promosing for the home team. All indications point toward her just wanting to be alone and everyone I've talked with to include her mother say they don't understand it.

I will take my daughter out to eat this weekend of course and maybe a movie, we'll see.

What questions do you have regarding the AF?

John