My first step out of Newcomers

[Can it work]

Thanks for your support Carlos. It does indeed sound like our stories are fairly similar. I had a quick look over your last thread and it seems you've decided not to try and get your M back any more. By reading your posts I have the upmost respect for your decision. I think the area where we differ is that my W was never angry or abusive toward me or our S. It does seem to me on here that it's a lot more common for a WAH to return than it is for a WAW. Maybe I'm wrong but that's just the impression I get from the boards.

I'm definitely not in a position yet to be able to give up on my M and right now I can't see a point where that would be the case. I'm wise enough to know that time can change things though. Life has to go on regardless. You sound like your an amazing father which I also aspire to be. My visitation with my S at the moment is not as much as I'd like it to be in an ideal world but I think it's as much as I can possibly get at the moment. I do want to build up a friendship with my W so we can be united in bringing up our S but right now she doesn't seem to be in a place where she can be friendly. I've now given up trying to work out what's going on inside her mind but have to hope that she'll snap out of it some day for the sake of Wee Man.

Kev