It seems like he's doing just a few things, but not all the things you need to see from him. Just enough to keep you going. And that's not what is needed to save this R. You need his FULL commitment! And you are not getting that from him.
Sam, you hit the nail on the head.
Thanks for your encouragement. I appreciate it.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.