NewMe, sorry, I sounded a bit pissed. I wasn't at you.
No apologies needed, it's soooooo hard to keep track of everybodies sitch.
Are you in the alt univ ??
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.