Silver loved the quote -- will borrow it for another site I go to.

You have been so strong and going dark helps. It helps preserve what love you still have for the WAS. If I kept interacting with my H I know I would have hated him by now. Detaching was difficult but now I wait.

Do not want to go through this D but I have no choice and need to take baby steps every day.

take care.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09