Silver loved the quote -- will borrow it for another site I go to.
You have been so strong and going dark helps. It helps preserve what love you still have for the WAS. If I kept interacting with my H I know I would have hated him by now. Detaching was difficult but now I wait.
Do not want to go through this D but I have no choice and need to take baby steps every day.
take care.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09