Very true. One step at a time. Families have sure changed. Used to if someone did something like this, they were not to be helped along. But not now.

You are a good W. You made some mistakes. Who hasn't. But you are honestly wanting to fix things. That is worth gold. Those A's may have been to much for him to handle. I don't know. But on the other hand, if he loves you, he will find a way to work past that.

What my W did hurt alot also. But I am willing to forget about it to fix things.

It may just take more time for him. And again, I think either he is going to have to get tired of OW or she is going to have to leave in July. One of the two has to happen in order for yall to begin reconciliation I think. Give it time. It sounds like he still loves you, he is just having to learn to grow up.

I still think there is promise for your marriage. Its just probably going to take longer than you want. Do you have the patience?

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...