Out of the Blocks! Into the Race!

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You are entering not the craziest time where you cannot trust your emotions and thought processes. Hopefully you have a good lawyer and nonemotional friends who will give sound advice.

Most of the time when bad things happen they happen at this period or shortly thereafter.

This time will end sooner or later. Very few people leave this time without going through a mourning combined with anger toward the relationship. If you choose to reach out to your spouse at this time in any way shape or form I would suggest do not. All communication should be made though an uninvolved third party and afterwards communication should only be made dealing with business.

I do not wish this on anyone.
Best wishes.