Sorry I haven't posted lately. Been very busy.......
I think gucci loafer has some very wise words written above....
I am pro-marriage. I think too many couples give up too soon. I have been following your sitch since you joined.
I believe the last year has been the best thing that has happened to me. It was hell to go through, but the growth and understand I gained by doing the work and feeling the pain have rewired my brain.
I am a firm believer that a "Vacation" from the R is healthy. How does a 1 year separation sound? You do not have to tell H, the duration, but let him know you need space.....
Just my 2 cents... HUGS and PRAYERS
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712