Maybe separation would be best. It would force him to wake up. Just get some security around your place. But separation can always change a R. If you can afford it, give it a try. See how it goes. I don't recommend D at all. But I do see situations where I would clearly recommend separation if it is used for the right reasons.
I wish my W would look at it as an option. These H's are so dumb to not realize that they have a W that will work on things with them. What is wrong with them. I would kiss the ground my W walks on if she would just work with me.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
