I have to remind myself of that. I am only half their parent. Its just frusturating when we both used to believe the same way and now she has changed all of that. I don't think she truly believes it, I think she just uses it to justify what she wants. But none the less, I only get half say.
And yes, they will figure it out when they are older. I just don't like this example being set and engraved into them. This is a terrible thing.
I'm kind of think that most marriages end up in D because there is a 3rd party involved from reading everyones stich. It looks that way to me. Otherwise, barring abusive, drugs, etc, there isn't really a reason for one person to walk out most of the time. Thats what makes this more terrible is usually, I don't believe this is really about the marriage so much as it is about someone else has come into the picture.
Granted the marriage had its issues which made it easier for someone else to walk in. But marriage's have their problems for everyone. So I still have to assume its more the 3rd party than the actual issues itself.
This is what I am starting to believe anyways. I could be way off base. But it sure looks like that.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
