1) No matter what, her family will eventually support her and not you. 2) Unless she is on drugs or is sexually abusing them, you will not get 100% custody of your kids regardless of her indiscretions. 3) When she sees your counter paperwork, the gloves will come off and you are in for a dogfight.
Hope for the best and prepare for the worst.
H: 38 W: 36 S: 8 S: 5 M: 16 Bomb: 8/25/08 OM: 9/21/08 EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...) Sep: 9/21/08 D Filed 9/23/08 My Situation