Kevin, think about the kids this way. You want them to know ABC. Your wife wants them to know XYZ. Which way is right? Your way? According to who? Your God? My God? Her God? They are three different gods. Which way is more right? Yours? Hers? Are you sure? She has just as much right to tell the kids about the divorce as you have NOT to tell them. You can't take that away from her. She can't take it away from you. It doesn't mean you have to agree. But it does mean that you have to recognize she is 1/2 their parent too. The girls will eventually make up their own minds and it won't be all YOUR way or all HER way. They are smart girls. And they will be fine, I promise, NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS.
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
