The reason I would be doing it is to get her out so that he could not focus on her. Which is selfish of ME. He maintains they are not sleeping together and I am okay with that except they did sleep in the same bed at Christmas. I still believe him (cause I'm stupid, I know.) I think because my reasons for doing it are selfish, it is the wrong thing to do and I shouldn't do it. But DANG. If I do nothing, I am hurt. If I do something, HE is hurt. But it is his choice. He could always choose to get rid of her. I worry about him not being motivated to make amends with me until July when she leaves. Then showing up all of a sudden and saying "Hey, baby, let's work this out." Maybe I should just not worry about it til it happens. Not sure I will be wanting him back if he lets her stay there the whole time HE wants her there, and just expects me to deal with it.
Okay, Still, I'm taking my tiki torch and going home, back to my own thread! Will keep checking on you!
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
