NewMe, I dropped a bomb.....20 months ago. Now he needs another one ? & then what, a bomb in another 2 years ?
I don't think so.
Sorry Cookie,
I joined your threads late last year and didn't realize you dropped the bomb 20 months ago. You're right - you shouldn't have to drop another one. You're one of the hardest working AWAWs out there. Your husband is lucky you've been sticking it out - wished my W was. There comes a time - like now for me - that I'm accepting the sitch, not trying to change the spouse, or control the sitch. Time to move on for me. The D is scary - more for the kids, but so is the prospect of any of us turning our M around with our spouses aren't getting with the program - and spending a couple of more years of our lives in limbo.
