- your post hit the nail on the head, I'm impressed that anyone got much of what i said, I think I talk in circles too many times for anyone to make heads or tails out of what I say.

It's true, she knows if she wiggles her a$$ in front of my face that I pretty much fall flat on my face, yes I'm an a$$ man (among pretty much every other body part on a woman) and she definitely has a nice one and she knows it does the trick for me. I never thought of it that way, if she wants sex, she does wiggle that thing in front of me, flirt with me and gets what she wants. It's hard for me (I won't say it's hard for all men or women, that's a stereotype) because I'm a sucker for really good sex and we've always had good sex but it is easy for her. She just has to "wiggle" it as you say and I'm there but if the opposite is done and I'm the one initiating it and she's not exactly feeling it or wanting to, she holds out.

I should do it the other way, I should hold out, I should care less and I should act as if I'm moving on and really mean it.

And I also think she is probably into the bad boy type that would treat her like crap, her dad was that way with her mom and left them when they were young only to come back a few years later. He did the same thing to another woman overseas and my wife only recently met her half-sister a couple of years ago and now she found out that she has another half-sister out there. Her dad is the kind of guy who couldn't care less about his wife, love or anything else for that matter. He takes care of himself and his own needs and doesn't worry about anyone else. I guess my wife saw that growing up and she is daddy's little girl and maybe that is the kind of guy she is attracted to, the "bad boy".

UGGG!!!

I've never been called the bad boy, I probably spent my whole life trying not to be the "bad boy", always responsible, safe, mature, etc. (yes boring for most of my life but that has been changing, trust me)

I need to be smart enough & clever enough like you said, I'm going to see if I can do that - if not for anything else, just for me.

Thanks for the wicked reply back, it was awesome and I love hearing from the female perspective - it helps alot, more than you know. ;-)