Thank you sweetie. I know you've had a long rough road.
I could be wrong (it's happened before, & will happen again). lol
I believe I found myself sometime in the last few months & I think I realize finally that I am happy by myself, & with my kids, but not with him.
It may even be that there's nothing wrong with him, according to someone else's measuring stick. I'm sure his next wife will think he's fabulous.
For me...... I want to be happy. If I'm happy & content when he's not around, that's kind of telling right there.
Hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
