I see good things and I see bad things. I do think there is someone else (because she is trying to push you into dating to make herself feel better, in my mind). But if she really felt secure in the other relationship, she would NOT tell you absolutely, that she is willing to wait 2-3 months to file. That is definitely a positive. If she did feel secure, she would be tellling you uh-uh she is filing for divorce tomorrow. Not sure. Will be interested to see Puppy's take on it. That bit surprised me, but maybe it shouldn't have, because I wasn't in a big hurry to file for divorce either. I was convinced I wouldn't change my mind, but I wasn't filing tomorrow either!! Dumb me!
Have you been in the AF all 15 years? I have some AF q's for you, if you don't mind answering them. Mostly about no contact orders.
I am going to hold out hope for you. Since she left D13 with you, I think she is going to realize what she gave up. It is happening a little bit with her being bored without you and the family. I am glad you didn't respond to her. Let her sit and stew in it! It was her choice! To make her feel worse (devil grin, here) take your D13 out bowling or something. Or out to eat. Or whatever so long as ya'll go do something together and don't invite your W. I'm gonna bet half the time she calls in the middle of what you are doing anyway. Never answer the phone when she calls! Wait until you get home and then go on about how much fun ya'll had. I think she will start to feel left out!
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
