Gucci, I do feel that continuing to try to talk to him is insane. LOL
I am willing to put the relationship on the line. I'm ready for one of us to move out NOW.
<<Sorry to say that men don't seem to get it until it is almost too late.
After this morning....... It's too late.
<<I see your feelings slowly dying
I think they're dead.
<<can tell you that at some point that allowing abuse is your responsibility
Your right. I thought because he had stopped the majority of the abuse, that he would continue to improve. Guess I was wrong.
<<Now what does she want? All she wants to do is talk about the relationship and talk about counseling. Talk talk talk. I just want peace."
He comes to me, asking me how I am, & then is relieved when I talk some more. *hits self in head with 2x4*
I'm listening loud & clear.
Thanks.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.