artemesia,

He says if I would forgive him, we could move forward. Like the other 6 times. LOL

Does he want it to work ?? He truly believes he's not being abusive anymore. He seems himself as a hard working man, trying to provide for his family, & because he helps with dishes now, he doesn't get it why I'm not being nicer to him.

My plan for the last few months has been..... get a job....make some decisions.

thank you for your thoughts.


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.