It just that she reached a point where you keep trying to get something and you're denied it, you wind up giving up and no longer wanting it. She also said that she still can't get past how much I've hurt her so she can't see me as her husband.
This is exactly where I'm at.
You guys are absolutely right. 18 months ago I said, I'm done. He couldn't go to IC fast enough. He read, he pleaded, he promised he'd spend the rest of his life making it up to me.
Then, I said bye to OM. H lost his job, & here we are again.
I suppose this is why so many WAW's are afraid that the changes aren't long term.
His favorite saying lately is "pull the trigger". I hear him say it all the time in business. Guess I should start listening to him.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
