Thanks Pup. YES, absulutely makes sense. My H is definitely not acting in the best interest of the M. In fact it funny how he has come to see me as his adversary and OW as his ally. And OW does a good job of helping him out with that. All she has to do is dangling his son in his face and that all works in her favor. Anyway, I need to keep that perspective when thinking about H, b/c he really has shown in his actions that he doesn't care about the M no matter what he says when he thinks he is losing me.

By the way, don't you just love how I have created a thread all dedicated to you. \:\) I haven't been on the site that long but I tell that there is much well deserved love for you.