Rob, Don't be so fast to pay her the 1150 unless it was court ordered. The ring, well, gold had never been higher and it might be good to get that behind you. Your W wanted a divorce , she got one, she really should not still be complaining about the terms. She did so many useless things that drove up your legal fees and meant nothing. I know you feel so much better when the last tie is cut. Each step brings you closer to a truly starting a new life . Once you are settled in the apartment , it will start to feel like home. Take Care