I'm sure your MIL is just thinking of the kids' emotional well-being. Don't read too much into that.

Realize that you are/may be getting divorced and then move on from there.

Good job on not calling her back.

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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER