Not sure of this one though: Maximize trying to convince her to stay? No.
I think it may be maximizing trying to convince her to stay with actions, not words.
Okay that all sounds solid. Good man. On this one I meant words. ie. trying to verbally convince her not to go, pleading etc.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
