Cinders, Sorry you are down but I have no doubt in my mind that you will feel better soon. Your like me when it comes to down days...they don't last.
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I went to FB and saw him and ow on a picture together, very cosy. It hurt. I shouldn't have looked. It's too hurtfull, the easy internet access we have nowadays...especially in this situation. I need to protect myself from it, from my own curiosity.
How did you see there pic on FB? Was it just a profile pic? I'm guilty of this also. I have looked at her fb/myspace pages too using my friend's password that he gave me, but the only person that ends up getting hurt is me. Although usually after the hurt subsides, I find myself even stronger than before. I guess that saying what doesn't break you only makes you stronger is true. I can't wait for the day where both me and you are no longer affected by the actions of the ow and husbands. One day we'll get there, I think we just need more time. But look how far we have come already!