And here's a question. If my W comes to me mad as hell about exposing to her family (which is likely), how should I respond? Anyone have experience with this?

I guess I should just validate her feelings, let her know I understand why she feels that way, and tell I did it because I was worried about her and that I hoped her family would be able to support her through these painful feelings she's experiencing. Especially since we are separated and I can't be there for her the way I'd like to be there.


Me: 33
WAW/MLC: 33
M: 4+, T: 10+
Separated: Nov 08
A#1: Oct 08 - Jan 09 (exposed and ended)
A#2: Feb 09 - ?
1: http://tinyurl.com/mrmistakes
2: http://tinyurl.com/ckch9t
3: http://tinyurl.com/stillwaters3